Men are known for being tough and reasonable. They have more stable hormones than women, obviously.

The thing is, there are men on online dating sites who actually loses their common sense. They stand by what their trademark is when going in an asian dating log in, but they just lose it when an alluring daughter of Eve chats them. What made me say this? Here are the reasons why:

(Note: This is not a general post. This is just about 'some' men in an online dating site.)


1. Some men easily get attracted to a woman's picture. 
You see, online dating site have this profile picture thingy, just like any other site. That is the representation of your user profile. But sometimes, men deliberately get drawn by the picture. They message the girl because--- 'Damn that pouty, shining red lips!'. For that, they forget to consider on investigating the girl's profile, they don't look at her other picture, and they don't look for something that will prove that the woman's identity is real. Just because of a freaking shining red lips! Can you believe that?!

2. Some men easily believe. 
Who says Internet will never lie to you? Did you know that there are a bunch of people who got victimized by these lies on the Internet? So one should not simply believe what the other party is saying. Comprehend it and use your instinct to determine if she's telling the truth. Just because she said she does not want to go skinny dipping means she won't ever do it. But of course, that's just a shallow example. There are more bigger and complicated things a liar has to offer.

3. Some men just turns into a good Samaritan. 
This is just too common. When a girl ask for money, and you haven't even seen each other personally, that's pure scam. Don't fall too quickly on that. Why would you send money to someone you just met on the Internet? Be reasonable and logical. She would probably just use it to shop until she drop.

These are just some of the mistakes men make on the Internet. So to you, who's reading this, if you are planning to join dating in Asian, make sure you know how to play your cards right.

"Make sure you know how to play your cards right."

When you say 'online dating', it is not just about two individual talking on the internet. There are a lot of things bigger than that. You are on the process of finding someone that will be your girlfriend or boyfriend. Or probably someone who you want to marry, or it could be you've been dreaming an Asian girl to complete your life. So this, my friend, is a great challenge. A great challenge to find that one special person. 

You have to work on your profile, you have to go to an Asian dating sign in and get ready to get started. Once you find that person whom you feel like talking to--- impress him/her. 

It's not just the ability of talking to someone online but also the ability to make that person curious about you. 

Something that will drawn him/her to you. 

Be a great character to on an online date. Treat it like a date on personal. Bring the best in you (but this doesn't mean that you have to hide your flaws, there are also things that needs to be said). 

Be the funny guy. If you're a guy, it also helps to be funny and achieve that sense of humor. Girls are just usually attached to funny men. They just want to meet that guy who can make them laugh. It will be an added bonus. It will be a great bonus! It brings more charisma to your personality. Girls would think that you are a great catch and a man that is for keeps. That will boost your self-esteem. 

Don't be a trying-hard. In regard to the first characteristic of being funny, this comes second. Don't be a trying-hard, whether to joke or you're just trying too hard to open yourself to the person you are talking to. That will be so lame. Just take it naturally and smoothly. Like James Bond. 

Be frank. (But not too frank, okay?) When we say be frank, it is about being able to say what you are looking for and why you are in a dating site. Just tell what's the deal. Like you\re just looking for someone you can talk after a long day at work (nothing serious), or you are looking for a serious relationship. Be specific about that to avoid misunderstandings and misconceptions. That will be a disaster. Be honest. 

Don't brag too much. Whether you're a guy or a girl, it's not really appealing to be too arrogant. There are things that makes you proud but not to the extent of bringing a 'tornado' our of your body.  You're not Tony Stark in the first place. So just keep it low and consistent. 

These characteristics are just some of the attitude of an online date must possess. It's really okay to have flaws but I'm pretty sure you know what are the characters that need to be out when dating online. Dating in Asian will surely give you a nice experience, just remember the do's and don'ts.